Dating Rules Part II

This is Part II of my Dating Rules blog. If you missed the first one, scan through my blog and look for Dating Rules Part I. Part II is going to cover some signs that we all, not just women, should look for when dating.


We all like to make the comment “She/he just all of a sudden became crazy. I don’t know what happened!!” bzzzz WRONG!! They were already crazy!! You just didn’t bother to look past the cute face, skinny waist, nice lips, big ass, or swag. Don’t blame it on anyone else…..please!

Anyway, I have come up with a list of things that you (everybody) should look for….traits that someone may have that should make you want to RUN!!

•If he/she has a habit like smoking or drinking that makes him belligerent, RUN!

Not only are these crazy habits to have but they can make a person be someone that they normally are not. Drugs and alcohol are what I call “attitude enhancers”. If you have an attitude or catch an attitude while on the “attitude enhancers”, it will be worse than any normal attitude. Nine times out of ten he or she will become violent or belligerent and the outcome does not look pretty.

•If he/she never completely answers a question, you will always haves this problem….he’s playing games.

This is becoming an epidemic!! ***NEWS FLASH*** YOU ARE NOT KEEPING IT 100 IF YOU ARE NOT TELLING THE WHOLE TRUTH AND NOTHING BUT THE TRUTH!! Just answering the question and not elaborating means that you are hiding something. YOU ARE NOT BEING “REAL” IF YOU DON’T TELL THE WHOLE TRUTH AND NOTHING BUT THE TRUTH!! If you tell the entire story from the beginning, you can avoid all the problems and heartache later on. •If he tells you off top that he’s not looking for a girlfriend, regardless of the reason, don’t try and change his mind.

He wants to remain single! Nothing will make him change his mind until he is truly ready. Please don’t think that by being patient and waiting that it will make him come around because he already told you from the beginning. He didn’t lie to you…he didn’t tell you that he wanted a relationship. Stop thinking that YOUR twat is so much better than mine or anybody else’s.

•If he has a girlfriend, Don’t believe that line “I must not be happy if I’m trying to get with you.”

First, don’t mess with anyone with a girlfriend or boyfriend especially if you want the situation to end in your favor. If he “decides” to leave her for you, he will do the same thing TO YOU! Again, don’t think that you are soooo special that any man will just up and leave where he has been laying his head and that you will not see him make that same move on you. Any man that can’t be single or hops from one bed to the next without a break is not ready for a real relationship….he just wants somewhere to lay his head.

•If he has a child that is less than two years old, RUN!

This is a trap!!! He and his child’s mother are either still dealing with each other or they haven’t worked thru all the kinks of their relationship so they still have drama. Please….please do not try to enter into a relationship with a person who has a young child and you are a SUPER jealous person. Someone will either be dead or hurt because it will not be pretty! There are too many men and women in this WORLD who don’t have drama and/or young kids…..find one of them. Situations tend to get pretty ugly when there are kids involved so save yourself the money, time and tears.

•If his sneakers or shoes are dirty, RUN!

If he doesn’t take care of the things that he wears, he doesn’t really care about his appearance. The first impression can make or break a situation and/or relationship. This is why it is important to always try to put your best foot forward at all times because you don’t where or when you will meet someone special.

These are only a few things to look out for when you decide to start looking for someone to date. Don’t continue to be a victim of these men and women who bring nothing but drama into your life!

This post will definitely be continued……



~Lohnnie Cakes

Should I continue???

I have really been thinking about whether or not I should continue posting on my Blogger account and/or shutting it down. It has become sort of a hassle to post on my WordPress.com blog and to post on here as well. Most of the posts are the same and that's really not fair....at least I don't think so.

So this week, I will either try to post more on this account or just totally close the account.

~Lohnnie Cakes

Affiliate marketing

Although I posted this in my other blog....I wanted to plug this one here as well.

Don't forget!! lohnniecakes.wordpress.com

For the past few days I have been doing research on Affiliate programs and ways to make an income from just doing the things that I like to do. I have done the E Bay thing, I am a Passion Parties independent consultant, and I sell Avon.

Selling on E Bay is easy but if you don’t have constant movement and products to sell, you won’t see a definite return. Its all about finding what is selling on these different auction websites and E Bay has gotten so good that they tell you which products are selling good on the site. Great tool!!

OMG!! I LOVE being a Passion Parties consultant (http://lohnniecakes.yourpassionconsultant.com btw lol) because I get to talkabout something that I absolutely LOVE!! SEX!! Who wouldn’t want to talk about sex? Who wouldn’t want to have a career where all they do it talk abut sex? Who wouldn’t want to do something that constantly educated them about SEX? I’m not sure about you….but I could probably do this for the rest of my life if the economy would pick back up. Either way, I think that its not a hard business to conquer, it just takes a lot of persistence and work. There are many woman within this company who make a living doing this and (make a very nice living might I add) do very well. Hopefully, once I move this hustle will pick up.

Avon (has been my way to learn a little more about makeup. I wasn’t a real girly, girl until I met this chick that pretty much changed how I dressed, looked and even my self-esteem. Just hanging out with her made it possible for me to see what I was doing wrong and make me want to do better. BUT by this time, I was already 25 or 26 years old!! I missed out on all the makeup lessons. How to apply eye shadow and how to make sure I chose the right colors. And even though she tried at some points, I just couldn’t get it so, I started selling Mary Kay first (too much of a time consuming thing) and then moved to Avon. The products are inexpensive! More colors, product range and more products geared towards convenience!! What more could I ask for?!? Although my eye shadow game isn’t where I would like it to be….I still know what works for me and how to look good when I hit the streets.

So all of this takes me to me wanting to continue on my path to stay home and affiliate market, video blog, make money from blogging and do me!! I definitely need help on my journey….any takers on being a mentor? lol

~Lohnnie Cakes                                 

http://lohnniecakes.yourpassionconsultant.com

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Happy Valentine's Day!!!

I know that I am CRAZY late but today was very busy for me and I really didn't even do anything pertaining to Valentine's day lol. With all the Valentine's day promoting that I did, I know that you would think that I have a mate or someone special in my life.....think again lol. Valentine's day has always been a crazy day for me and so again, today was no different. I received many requests to be someones valentine but nothing that I know for myself to be absolutely real or to be taken seriously.


So I have been doing a lot of web surfing, researching and thinking about my next step in this process. What process am I talking about? The process of getting my blog seen and maybe doing some video blogging in future. 


~Lohnnie Cakes

R.I.P. Whitney Houston at age 48

Yesterday, February 11, 2012, the world lost another star. Whitney Houston, age 48, passed away from unknown causes.

Ms. Houston was scheduled to perform for the Pre-Grammy awards show; however, prior to her appearance she was found dead in her hotel room bathroom. It has been speculated that she had taken some medication prior to getting in the tub and may have drowned.

Houston started her singing career at New Hope Baptist Church in the junior choir and was developed into a soloist at the age of 11. In her mid-teens, she started singing backup for artists like Chaka Kahn and Lou Rawls. In 1984, she sang a duet with Teddy Pendergrass "Hold Me". Clive Davis signed Houston to Arista Records and by 1985 her singing career was on its way.

In the span of 27 years, Whitney Houston became an international superstar in both the music and motion picture world. She had amassed global album sales of over 120 million copies alone, and a film box office total of over a half billion dollars. She was received many international awards and accolades for her works.

Whitney Houston leaves behind her 18 year old daughter, Bobbi Kristina.

~Lohnnie Cakes

 

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R.I.P. Don Cornelius at 75

Don Cornelius, the creator and legendary African American passed away at age 75.

According to reports, police were called to Cornelius’s home after gunshots were heard. The police found Cornelius with a gunshot wound to the head that appeared to be self-inflicted, according to the Los Angeles County coroner.

The first episode of Soul Train aired on August 17, 1970 and by the following year it was being aired on more than one network. It definitely proved to be what the African American culture needed. Soul Train became the longest-running national syndicated show in history. The show aired from 1971 to 2006 and Cornelius hosted until 1993 when he decided to step down.

~Lohnnie Cakes

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