Tuesday, January 31, 2012

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Valentine's Day Love


What better way to show someone that you love them than to go above and beyond the normal one day of Valentine's Day? The 14 Days of Valentine would be a perfect way to do just that!
What type of gifts do you give? Well, you definitely want to give put some thought into it and chose things that would be sentimental to your mate. Cards, flowers, a weekend trip, a couples massage, anything you can do to show your love.
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I found a website (http://holidays.lovingyou.com/calendar.php) that has a calendar with everyday planned out for their loved one. It doesn't have to be expensive but the point of your 14 day plight of love is to show your mate that you are in love. Sometimes the simplest things are the best ideas to show you care.
Day One is tomorrow....what will you do for the love of your life? 

Monday, January 30, 2012

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More positive thinking for your life!!!

Okay, so I'm still slacking but I'm getting better lol.....at least it hasn't been like 6 months between posts. I'm so bad!!!! So my last blog was about positive thinking and believing in the power of The Law of Attraction. 

Everyday I get an email from a daily blog called "The Daily Love". The blog is by Mastin Kipp and he is truly wonderful!! The blog gives me a lot of daily encouragement and helps me with the quotes, insight and daily affirmations. He is awesome!!! He's on Twitter, Facebook and all that....check him out!!

Anyway, yesterday he sent out an email for his blog called, "Here's Why You're Not Getting What You Want". It instantly caught my attention! We all go through times when we feel like we aren't getting what we want and we sit and wonder why. Some of us more than others..... So, one of his quotes of the day was:
"Cherish your visions. Cherish your ideals. Cherish the music that stirs in your heart, the beauty that forms in your mind, the loveliness that drapes your purest thoughts, for out of them will grow all delightful conditions, all heavenly environment; of these, if you but remain true to them, your world will at last be built." - James Allen
A quote with major encouragement and a reason to remain positive and push forward with your goals and visions. If our behavior, attitudes and actions do not reflect what we really want, it will never come. We must be truly mindful of everything that we do....we must know that before we DO something, we think about it first. We think about it, make a decision, make sure its truly what we want to do, and sometimes we have to discuss it with a friend to make sure that we are making a clear, unrushed decision.

So, if you aren't getting what you really want....maybe you should look at your desires, your actions. Where is the disconnect between what you really want and your desires and actions? How can you adjust your actions to sync up with your desires? What is your plan? Write it down so that it is visual and make sure that its the first thing that you see every day. Get your behavior, attitude, desires and actions in line.....everything else will follow.


- Lohnnie Cakes

Thursday, January 26, 2012

The Secret

OMG So yesterday was a very long day and it drained me!! So I didn't get to post yesterday because of my running around but I might be able to post more than once today depending on what I end up doing.

I noticed where my friend posted a quote on Google+ a few days ago and it stuck with me.


"Keep your thoughts positive because your thoughts become your words. Keep your words positive because your words become your behaviors. Keep your behaviors positive because your behaviors become your habits. Keep your habits positive because your habits become your values. Keep your values positive because your values become your destiny."


I always try to remain positive because its a powerful thing!! Having the right mindset will take you places and keep you there. I love watching The Secret when I feel like I need some positive energy. And honestly, when I first got it, I watched it everyday! Needing that extra boost to take me to a place where I knew that wherever my thoughts remained focused on, energy flowed. The film was made by Rhonda Byrne, with the hope to share what she had learned about "The Secret" and find others that shared the same intention. Her website (http://www.thesecret.tv/index.html) offers sooooo much information about the Secret and shares stories from people who have changed their thoughts, words, behaviors and habits. In doing this, they have changed their lives.

The Secret essentially is The Law of Attraction. The Law of Attraction is the metaphysical belief that like attracts like. So in turn, if you think, behave and express positivity, positive energy will surround you. According to the Law of Attraction, if you say "I need more money" this statement allows you to continue to "need more money". If you want to change this, you would need to focus your thoughts on the goal (having more money) rather than the problem (needing more money). This might take the form of phrases such as "I have more money now" or "I have more money than I need." It seems so simple but most of us have conditioned ourselves to "need more money" rather than "I have more money".


One of the phrases that stick with me after watching The Secret. One of the Financial Advisers that spoke of their experiences and knowledge said that you have to change your mindset about money. Repeat to yourself, "Money comes easily and frequently." It can be hard because you will have conflicting emotions about that statement, but if you change how you think about that statement, change how you feel about it and really come to believe it.....wealth will be within your reach.


I will leave you with this statement that I got from TheSecret.tv......"Wealth is a mindset. Money is literally attracted to you or repelled from you. It's all about how you think."

Tuesday, January 24, 2012

Come join us!!!!!

2012.....

Sooooo......I always do this!! I say that I'm going to do better and then I neglect my post!! Shame on Lohnnie Cakes!!! I have been so busy and just all over the place that I haven't had the time to just sit down and "play" on the internet. Hopefully, that will change today and I will make it my business to post at least once a day!!


Anyway, yesterday was a crazy day for me and it prompted me to start posting on my FB page about Cheaters!!! What other way to get some things off your chest than to talk about what aggravates you the most!


Are you an ineffective and impulsive cheater? Do you get caught EVERY time? Do you lie like you're a rug? Did no one tell you it was CHEAPER to KEEP her? If you can answer yes to at least one of these questions, you need to sign up for me NEW class!! For just $25, you can find out How to Effectively Cheat on your Mate!! Inbox me for details!!!!


  1. Lesson One: Stop believing that you will NEVER get caught!!
  • Lesson 1.1 Recognize that just because you and your girl/wife live in New York and your boo thang lives in Florida, you will STILL get caught. The place does not matter!! If you are not a habitual liar, this plan WILL NOT work. At some point, someone will find the inconsistencies in your tall tales and start investigating.
  • Lesson 1.2 The only way to NOT get caught, is to be honest from the beginning!! No expectations. No sneaking. No lies. If you know that you need more than one lady/man in your life, be honest! Some people are naturally unable to be in a monogamous relationship. You will find someone out there that will still love you for you....trust me, look at Emily and Fab!
  • Lesson 1.3 Don't be in denial!! Once you have been caught, just admit it!! If you continue to lie, you will only make things worse. Your mate will dig deeper and trust me....it will only get worse. You are not a "MacDaddy" or a "DaddyMac" so relieve yourself of the burden of weaving more lies. 
  • Lesson 1.4 If you are determined to cheat and you feel like you will not get caught, play your cards right. Don't over do it and start making the lies sound like Keith Sweat when he begs. "Baby, please lets just let it go. You know I love you and only you. She could never be you." You have really just hit rock bottom!! Your mate will start investigating and the phone bill will be the first thing that she checks. Get a Straight Talk phone from Walmart for goodness sake!!!
  • Lesson 1.5 Don't tell your mate that the other person is your cousin or brother/sister. Don't tell your boo thang that your mate is your baby mother or baby daddy and that you agreed to separate as friends. You are creating bad blood and its going to end very badly for you.